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It turned out to be a disaster, and within a year she was back home with her parents. For 10 years now she has been mwn to find another husband, but has reached a bitter conclusion: most Sikh men don't want to marry a divorcee. He said it to hurt me, but he knew it could turn out to be true.
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But actually Sikhs do get divorced sometimes, just like everyone else. Last month I was introduced to someone through a friend. He said it to hurt me, but he knew it could turn out to be true. My dad's family in India said they were disappointed that I was home; I was a disgrace to them.
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It's just another prejudice. Faith is important to sedking - the Sikh faith that says that men and women are equal and that we should not judge one another. And if women are trapped in an abusive marriage because of the taboo of divorce, I would urge them to leave. And so did I.
I felt dirty and used. There are more than 22, Sikhs in Hounslow, so probably 11, are men. Only a small proportion of them are in southalp right age group, and unmarried.
Maybe it will encourage more women to speak up. Once the volunteer saw my details on the form I had filled in he said: "Here are two men who are divorced - they are the only ones suitable for you.
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Some of those who admit to having been divorced may have remarried, but I'm quite sure that a larger tick the "single" box even though they are divorced - it's such a taboo. It turned out to be a disaster, and within a year she was back home with her parents. To begin with I was ashamed myself. The turban is important to me, though.
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Related Topics. These are the kinds of things people say to me: "You are too old to have kids, you are going to find it hard to meet someone now - you've left it too late. Younger people have told me it's not such a big issue for them. My grandma in London told me I should have worked at my marriage, even though she knew what I had been through. He said he wasn't interested in a divorcee.
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How could I look at another man when I knew he would regard me as used goods? We are human beings, and we deserve to be treated equally. My marriage had been semi-arranged.
It's as though men can never be responsible for a divorce, only women. But nor do I want to meet men who want a housekeeper rather than a wife, and ask questions like, "can you cook? For five years I hardly went out, but in I porum ok milf personals to look again for a partner. I know I have made things difficult for myself by looking not just for a Sikh but for a turbanned Sikh.
You should just find anyone and marry them. And of those who are, many don't wear a turban. Other people reinforced this feeling.
He was in his 40s, but he expected women to come with no history. After meeting about 40 different men over the last 10 years, it's only in the last few months that I have begun to think about considering non-turbanned Sikhs, and even non-Sikhs. Divorce is shameful in the Sikh community, especially for women.
They would start asking questions - how old I was, where I lived, where I worked - but as soon as told them I was divorced, their facial expression changed. For 10 years now she has been hoping to find another husband, but has reached a bitter conclusion: most Sikh men don't want to marry a divorcee. I southall men seeking men an independent person who wants a partner for companionship.
After my divorce, when I started looking for a new husband, I went to the Hounslow temple to register in its matrimonial book. It was a familiar story. I knew the temple would only introduce free phone chat 24095 to members of my own caste, even though caste isn't important to me. When I asked people to look out for a suitable man for me they would often be happy to help.
But in my generation, even people who have divorced sisters or daughters in their own family will still judge another divorced woman outside their family. Southalk was a look that said, "we can't help you". Cl personals cairns of my friends have already taken this step. As divorce becomes more common, attitudes will most likely change.
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People kept telling me I was getting old and putting pressure on me to marry, so I asked the temple in Southall to introduce me to someone. Southall men seeking men why can't divorced women be introduced to men who have not been married before? But what I didn't know was that, since I was a divorcee, they would only introduce me to divorced men. I asked the man in charge of the Hounslow temple's matrimonial service, Mr Grewal, to explain this to me and escorts in bend oregon told me it wasn't his choice - it was the men looking for a bride, and their parents, who said they didn't want a divorcee.
By telling my story I am hoping I will help to remove the stigma of being a divorced woman.